yes.
you people.
you smarty pants people who compare SAT scores and chat about all the ish you gotta do- and how many problems you didn't miss- and how many AP tests you have this week-- and how many scholarships you have, and telling everyone what they can and cannot say--- and what awards you won in so many categories.
guess what-------
i have news for you.
YOU BOTHER EVERYONE INCLUDING YOURSELVES.
5.02.2011
4.22.2011
oh shes hasn't been asked.......
might as well open the door wide and welcome the giant elaphant outside it to walts on in.
hello senior ball around the corner.
hello self.
hello all friends who have been asked minus mwa.
ask me if i care? "i used to"
ask me if its a touchy subject for every girl in high school. ---scratch that.... ask me is it's a touchy subject for every femal in the world.
YES.
if i was a statistical person i'd say 99.75% of woman.
I think it's been established that it's a touchy subject.
I never told you i was going to help you solve your elaphants-- i just said i'd state them.
your life is rough.
hahahahahahahahahahahahaahHAHAHAHAHhahaahahAHHhahaha.
hello senior ball around the corner.
hello self.
hello all friends who have been asked minus mwa.
ask me if i care? "i used to"
ask me if its a touchy subject for every girl in high school. ---scratch that.... ask me is it's a touchy subject for every femal in the world.
YES.
if i was a statistical person i'd say 99.75% of woman.
I think it's been established that it's a touchy subject.
I never told you i was going to help you solve your elaphants-- i just said i'd state them.
your life is rough.
hahahahahahahahahahahahaahHAHAHAHAHhahaahahAHHhahaha.
3.14.2011
you're not VOGUE
wearing really ugly clogs and thick massive heals IS NOT VOGUE and is not "inn"
and it will never be "inn".
Fashion is looking good, being eligant and classy.
STYLE is being unigue-wearing things no one would ever imagine wearing and not holding back.
and it will never be "inn".
Fashion is looking good, being eligant and classy.
STYLE is being unigue-wearing things no one would ever imagine wearing and not holding back.
INDIE IS FAKE
&a sense of style is being able to pull off a lot of different looks. & EMBRACING CHANGE
JUST BE YOU.
it's over and you know it
"babe?"
three hours later a response; "hey."
-It's over and you both know it. The tension when together is as thick as her hair.
Nothing is said and nothing is solved, knowing it's over is even more painful than the actual brake-up.
so why does no one speak up.
I've been on both ends. I wish I could say I manned up and faced it. I didn't.
I knew it was over but I wanted him to stay the pit in my stomach only grew.
He was so meek and fragile I couldn't brake him.
here's the thing; no one wants to take care of their significant other like a child and no one wants to be the child. So be honest face it and in the end everyone involved is better off.
three hours later a response; "hey."
-It's over and you both know it. The tension when together is as thick as her hair.
Nothing is said and nothing is solved, knowing it's over is even more painful than the actual brake-up.
so why does no one speak up.
I've been on both ends. I wish I could say I manned up and faced it. I didn't.
I knew it was over but I wanted him to stay the pit in my stomach only grew.
He was so meek and fragile I couldn't brake him.
here's the thing; no one wants to take care of their significant other like a child and no one wants to be the child. So be honest face it and in the end everyone involved is better off.
3.10.2011
one of my favorite Elephants
SEXUAL TENSION
&possibly one of the most awkward.
scenario:
boy
girl
no one in the room--parents are gone, friends up-stairs
alone
one thing leads to another..............................
friends appear
everyone knows what just happened and the tension builds
well we all know sally and tom just got down... soooo.....
here's the thing--it happens we all do it at some point why is it embarrassing?
My dear dear friends, this is how rumors start. These poor people's brains are speeding a million miles a minute thinking about what possibly happened in that 10 minutes sally and tom were left alone. &by the time Monday rolls around your 3 friends and his 6 friends can't handle it anymore--they burst. This is when the rumors happen.
Sense nothing was really addressed no one knows what to think, and like humans, teenage humans, we tend to think the worse...
So poor Sally has the rep now of easy slut (thanks bestfriends) and Tom is a player.
Wait!!!
Your friends missed something.... Sally has never kissed anyone... and Tom has liked Sally sense Elementary school...... hmmmm... I guess it wasn't what we built it up to be.... some huge scandal that was really quite innocent and cute.
Bottom line:
openness is not scary and not wrong. It can be beneficial and nothing has TO BE AWKWARD.
problem solved?
not that easy.... but hopefully it's more clear now.
3.09.2011
THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM
"what one won't say"
it's there but it is never addressed.
In this blog I have created, me, Elizabeth; I will fearlessly sate what no one else will or what one is ashamed to say.
Weather it's about friends family, weight, hair, make-up clothes, politics (not that i know much about that), VOGUE you name it-i'll say it. BLUNT AND PROUD.
Welcome to thee elephant in the room
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